Beducated – Playfighting: Making Wrestling for Lovers Safe & Fun
About This Course
Dive into the playful side of intimacy with this video course by Lola Jean. Learn through practical techniques how to add playfighting into your intimacy for deeper pleasure and trust.
Your Struggles, Solved
Playfighting adds thrilling physical dynamics to your intimate life, but without proper guidance, it can feel intimidating or potentially unsafe. This course transforms wrestling into a powerful connection tool.
You’re likely facing:
- Size and Strength Differences – You worry the bigger/stronger partner will always dominate, making playfighting feel unfair or impossible.
- Safety Concerns – You’re hesitant to try physical play because you don’t know how to prevent injuries or establish boundaries.
- Confusion About Purpose – You’re unsure how to balance aggression with intimacy, making playfighting feel awkward rather than connecting.
This course teaches you foundational techniques like the S Grip and body bondage that work regardless of size or strength. You’ll learn how to transform physical aggression into intimate connection through Lola’s “Baby Bear Play” framework. By mastering controlled movements and proper communication, you’ll create a safe, playful dynamic that deepens trust and physical intimacy.
What You Will Learn In Playfighting: Making Wrestling for Lovers Safe & Fun
“Playfighting isn’t about overpowering your partner—it’s about creating a safe space where you can express yourselves physically and build incredible trust and intimacy.”
— Lola Jean, Playfighting Expert
Safety & Communication Fundamentals
- Boundary Setting Protocol – Establish clear verbal and non-verbal signals that ensure both partners feel safe to express limits at any moment.
- Injury Prevention Techniques – Master proper body positioning and controlled movements that protect vulnerable areas while maintaining playful intensity.
Technique Mastery Regardless of Size
- S Grip Fundamentals – Learn this cornerstone technique that lets smaller partners effectively control larger ones without relying on brute strength.
- Body Bondage Methods – Discover how to use body weight and leverage to create pleasurable restraint regardless of size differences.
Emotional Connection Through Physical Play
- “Baby Bear Play” Framework – Transform aggressive physical energy into intimate connection using Lola’s proven approach to playful wrestling.
- Escalation Mapping – Learn to naturally progress from playful wrestling to deeper intimacy while maintaining emotional connection.
By course completion, you’ll confidently engage in safe, balanced playfighting that deepens trust and transforms physical dynamics, regardless of size differences or previous experience.
Lessons and Classes
Total length:30-60 min
- Welcome to Playfighting
- The Goals of Playfighting
- Negotiation and Safety
- Questions to Ask Yourself and Your Partner
- Grips and Positions
- Body Bondage
- Escapes and Fluidity
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