How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You by Leil Lowndes
Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You.
The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in βScientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Loveβ), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for βHunters and Huntressesβ to capture their βQuarry.β Much of what the book offers is common senseβthe power of eye contact and complimentsβbut itβs presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it canβt help but work.
Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, βShow him youβre smart, but rememberβnot too smartβ or βWatch your Quarryβs reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions.β
In all fairness, Lowndes doesnβt play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make you more appealing, too!
About Author:
LEIL LOWNDES is an internationally acclaimed writer, motivational speaker, and corporate trainer. She has spoken, consulted, and conducted training programs in every major city in the US and many abroad. Leil has written 7 books and 6 audio programs on all types of interpersonal communicating. Her books have been translated into 18 languages, and she has received testimonials from dozens of top communicators, including the following:
ON SOCIAL COMMUNICATING
βYouβll not only break the ice, youβll melt it away with your new skills.β
LARRY KING, talk show host
ON BUSINESS COMMUNICATING
βLeil teaches you how to talk and communicate with heart and soul that will get results NOW.β
MARK VICTOR HANSEN, author of the best selling βChicken Soup for the Soulβ series
ON ROMANTIC COMMUNICATING
βEvery single person I know asks, βHOW can I meet her/him?βAt last, Leil gives us the answers.β
REGIS PHILBIN, talk show host
ON SEXUAL COMMUNICATING
βThe real deal. A classic guide to piece together the puzzle that is the opposite sex. The information is this book is powerful . . . highly recommended!β
NEIL STRAUSS, author of βThe Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists.β
Leilβs teen-age bouts with shyness explain the passion she brings to her subject. Her later experiences as a starring Broadway actress explain her electrifying presentation. Her extensive training in Psychology explains her rare insights. Her twelve years of conducting corporate training programs and her profound knowledge of interpersonal communicating explain her companyβs impressive track record.
As president of Applause, Ltd., Leil has clients in a wide range of industries: The Walt Disney Company, Kodak, Dale Carnegie, AmerUS Insurance, Sales & Marketing Council, Young Presidents Organization, Keds Shoes, Folger Coffee, Mattel Toys, Lβeggs Hosiery, the government of Bermuda and the U.S. Peace Corps to name only a few.
In addition to engrossing audiences on hundreds of TV and radio shows, Leilβs work has been acclaimed by The New York Times, the Chicago Tribune and Time Magazine.
Leil Lowndes is an internationally acclaimed communications expert and author of five books who coaches top executives of Fortune 500 companies and front line employees to become βFearless Communicators.β Even seasoned sales professionals and top executives who have βheard it allβ are thrilled with her fresh insights and unique material. Leilβs audiences discover the subliminal sales signals and subconscious
interactions that take place in every encounter. Participants leave with dozens of βtake home techniquesβ they can start using immediately to boost their credibility and connection with people.
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