Caffyn Jesse – Intimacy Educator

This program teaches people how to share erotic touch. You can have a joyful, soulful livelihood as an Intimacy Educator. Sacred Intimacy is also a way of life, that nurtures intimacies and grows community.

What You’ll Learn In Intimacy Educator

You will learn to support people in:

• practicing empowered choice and voice
• understanding the neural learning zone
• addressing sexual trauma and neglect
• finding sexual healing and well-being

You’ll learn to offer:

• trauma-informed touch
• sensual massage
• genital mapping, massage and de-armouring
• transformative erotic rituals

This online course includes both email and zoom support from Caffyn Jesse – a leading teacher in the field of sacred intimacy and somatic sexual wellness.

Course Curriculum

Module 1: Introduction and Intake

• Course Outline Intimacy Education (e-book)
• Welcome to the Program (Video introduction)
• What is Intimacy Education? (Video)
• Goals for this Module
• Outlaws’ Journey (e-book)
• Intake Form and Process
• Intake (discussion video)
• Special consideration for Friends/Practice Partners
• For Clients: Finding a Practitioner
• Enriching Intentions e-book
• Introduce yourself to Caffyn
• Zoom : Office Hours with Caffyn
• Intimacy Educator: the book

Module 2: Empowering Choice and Voice

• Welcome to this Module
• Goals for this Module
• Extra support for BIPOC students
• Empowering Choice and Voice (e-book)
• Empowering Choice and Voice (Discussion Video)
• Somatic Exercises for Empowering Choice and Voice (demo videos of Somatic Alliance, Thank the No, Yes-No-Maybe and Feel and Defend Your Boundaries)
• Neural Learning Zone (e-book)
• The Neural Learning Zone (discussion video)
• The Neural Learning Zone posters
• Quadrants of Touch (e-book)
• Quadrants of Touch (demo videos)
• Quadrants of Touch (discussion video)
• The Relational Matrix (includes demo videos of Sacred Space, Welcome Home and Bossy Session)
• Becoming Satisfyable
• A Song and a Poem
• Check in with Caffyn

Module 3: Sensual Massage

• Welcome to this Module
• Goals for this Modules
• Learning to Choose Pleasure (e-book)
• Vagal Fitness: Cultivate Erotic Energy with Breath (demo videos)
• Sensual Massage (e-book)
• Build a Vocabulary of Touch (demo video)
• Sensual Massage (demo video and handout)
• Sensual Massage (discussion video)
• Sensual Massage: Practical Magic (discussion video)
• How to Touch (demo video)
• A Song and a Poem
• Optional Reading: Vulnerability Warrior
• Connect with Caffyn and Fellow Students

Module 4: Genitals…!?

• Welcome to this Module
• Goals of this Module
• Genital Anatomy (e-book)
• Genital Drawing and/or Writing
• Special Considerations for Professional Practice
• Special Considerations for Friends
• Genital Mapping (Discussion video)
• Genital Mapping and Massage (e-book)
• Transforming Touch (discussion video)
• Genital Massage demonstration videos
• Genital Massage Strokes – posters
• A Song and a Prayer
• Connect with Caffyn

Module 5: Erotic Ritual

• Welcome to this Module
• Goals for This Module
• Erotic Ritual (e-book)
• Erotic Ritual Exchange
• Erotic Ritual Playsheet
• Pelvic Pain and Genital De-Armouring (e-book)
• Scar Tissue and Genital De-Armouring (discussion video)
• A Song and a Poem
• Connect with Caffyn
• Welcome Home Ritual

Module 6: Harvest, Integration and Next Steps

• Welcome to this Module (video)
• Goals for this Module
• Harvest (e-book)
• A Song and a Poem
• Connect with Caffyn
• Comments and Connection
• Course Evaluation Survey
• Certificate of Completion
• Work with Caffyn

About Caffyn Jesse

Caffyn Jesse is a sacred intimate who revels in the power and pleasures of the erotic.

Caffyn taught for many years in the Sexological Bodywork and Somatic Sex Education professional trainings, as well as offering a weeklong training for Intimacy Educators, plus occasional workshops on topics ranging from pelvic pain to sex in long-term relationships.

They offered trauma training for professionals who touch. Encouraging neuroplastic change to support sexual healing and expanded pleasure, unwinding sexual trauma, exploring the intersection of sex and spirit, creating erotic community – Caffyn has welcomed people from around the world to their Salt Spring Island studio.

She has researched and written on the science of sexological bodywork, psychedelic medicine, neurobiology and sexual healing, trauma, orgasm coaching and many other topics. Her books include Science for Sexual Happiness , Intimacy Educator: Teaching with Touch, Elements of Intimacy and Pelvic Pain Clinic.

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